Let's be frank. We're all here for the smut and the drama. Smut and drama are what make this community go around, and I know that when things get boring, both of the knobs get turned up. Way up. But the problem with smut and drama is that it is all very personal. We are talking about romantic double crosses, cheating, and sex sex sex. Now, I don't know about you guys, but that is really intimate stuff, and the people who I choose to smut and drama with tend to become close friends. Or at least.. I treat them like a close friend.
Before I start any drama, I try and warn people. I come to you OOC and say "Hey, Sin/Sasha/Bale have this idea, and they want to do..." and discuss it with you. Many of the major scenes that you will find me posting for the community to enjoy have been entirely planned out before they were played. When Sin and Hugh broke up (many many moons ago) the whole thing was staged, and Sonny and I had discussed every point of it so that it happened smoothly.
I don't care what happens IC. Things happen out of your control, relationships die, and things don't work out. I understand that. But IC should never have any bearing on how you treat your fellow players OOC. Just because you are facing an unpleasent situation IC, you should care enough about your close friends to talk about the situation. Just because things don't work out with one character, it doesn't mean that your roleplay has to end. When Sin and Hugh broke up, Sin met Justin.. and soon afterwards George came around. There are plenty of opportunities to play in this community, and if one avenue is closed, another will open up.
Sonny and I are not going to play the ethical police. But as members of our community, we expect you to treat your fellow players with some basic respect. That's why we have the 16 and up policy. Because we feel that by the age of 16, you are old enough to understand that if you are going to play with adults, then you will be expected to act like an adult.
Much against my will, we have instated a Three Strikes policy. Everyone fucks up. Everyone forgets the rules, or get emotionally involved.. and mistakes are made. We understand that. But we really feel that by the second or third time that feelings are crushed, or disrespect is shown, or that the rules are broken.. You know what you are doing. Three Strikes and you will be kicked so fast out of this community your head will spin.
Sonny and I both have roleplayed for a very long time, and we both are rather protective of our little sand box. While we want to be fair.. this is still our baby. And if you prove to be disrespectful to us or anyone else who we have chosen to play here.. You can just go find somewhere else to play. I won't sit here and have someone hurt me or my close friend's feelings. As much as we all want to say it's just a game.. sometimes it hurts. It is important to Sonny and I both that this community is as fun and friendly as possible. To be fun and friendly we don't have to be fake or sugar coat anything. We just all need to be honest.
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